| Attachment
to love
is actually
the absence of love. |
The
most painful experiences in life are the ones having to do with the
giving and receiving of love. As human beings, we can endure a lot of
pain as headaches, but when it comes to heartaches, a deep heartache
can take down even the strongest of humans.
Everyone on the planet has probably heard the
phrase, “You’ve taken something to heart.” This is
when you have taken into your greater Kelee another’s negative
perception of you and believed it. Someone else’s negative view
of you has become yours as a compartment.
Whenever you love someone and “keep them
in your heart,” you make a mental attachment to them. When mental
attachments form, they compartmentalize. When the attachment is broken
you feel broken. This is the proverbial heartache.
When love hurts, it’s because you’re
holding onto something that was not yours to begin with. No one owns
another’s love. If you cannot detach from these compartmentalized
attachments, they are excruciatingly painful. The Practice will dissolve
these painful compartments, but why did you take them in to begin with?
This is the deeper spiritual lesson having to do with the missing puzzle
pieces in your spirit.
Heartaches end when self-acceptance starts.
As you spend time in your heart through The Practice, you will understand
why you hurt.
Remember, love never hurts, the absence of
love does.
The map to understanding your heart is here, wouldn’t it be wise
to explore it?
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